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Post by B on 4/24/2010, 7:40 pm

she has told me to speak my mind whenever i feel sad. here it goes:

i feel that i am left out from many people's prp's. i also feel like i am disliked by certain members on here due to the very negative things my posts are getting. now please don't respond with mean things or deduct my reputation even more. my therapist said its a good idea to to this and now i feel better. thanks for listening! :l
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Post by Malicious Nightmares on 4/24/2010, 7:44 pm

Aweh. Please don't feel like this. D:

I keep forgetting to reply to our PRP, and also that I'm WAYYY to lazy to. >_>

Ps. Trust me. You aren't the only one getting TONS of Negative Rep, these days. I'm up to 4! DX [3, excluding the one WCL ACCIDENTALLY gave. nod]
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Post by Avé on 4/24/2010, 7:49 pm

No one hates you. I know that I don't, and I don't know why anyone else would have a reason to. You're really nice, Becca, and I think you're a great Twig member. nod
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Post by B on 4/24/2010, 8:16 pm

i had like nearly 6 rep then i went down to 1 then went up one. i know certain members here dislike me, that's for sure. oh, and i don't mind, Mia. i kinda lost interest and forgot about the PRP. xPP
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Post by Malicious Nightmares on 4/24/2010, 8:26 pm

I sorta lost interest in the PRP, too.. DX

I know that some members hate me, too. Not everyone can be liked by every single person in this world. We'll always be hated by a few people, and we should all know that. (:
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Post by Jesus4Eternity on 4/24/2010, 8:33 pm

Why would someone hate you? You're, like, amazing. How could anyone hate you?

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Post by B on 4/24/2010, 8:51 pm

Well, I'm not whom I seem. I act nice online because I know that they'll be nice to me and not get into drama.
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Post by Jesus4Eternity on 4/24/2010, 8:56 pm

Girly, I nominated you for Featured Member. How can you think we hate you?

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Post by Crystal Aura on 4/24/2010, 9:02 pm

Well, at least in my humble opinion, none of Twig's members should feel this disconsolate. I don't even know you that well but I am governed by reason to post, here. And that purpose is because this whole problem of yours isn't making sense... Well, about the part where you got so many negative rep votes. I mean, why? If I had to draw conclusions, here, I'd bet the people who gave you those negative votes are being ignobly unfair with you. Therefore, I'm telling those people to always hold their heads up but be careful to keep their noses at a friendly level. Same goes for you, and me. Hence, I am most partial to your side because you seem sweet and you are completely innocent, here. I rest my case. You don't deserve those negative votes... And I understand how you feel. I'm sorry. Sad
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Post by B on 4/24/2010, 9:06 pm

Crys, I barely understood what you said.
Aman, I know you voted for me. And I'm just not very well liked. I bash on myself everyday because I hate how I look and how I act.
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Post by Avé on 4/24/2010, 9:09 pm

Becca... -hug- Don't be so down on yourself. I think you're pretty awesome, and I'm sure other people do too. Forget those negative reps... I'm sure whoever gave them to you had nothing against you, maybe just what it said.
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Post by Crystal Aura on 4/24/2010, 9:11 pm

*Busts head against a wall and loses the fancy vocabulary*

Okay, then. I'll break it down...
You = A great member, blameless, pure, and important. X3

I'll vote for you, as well. righton
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Post by Jesus4Eternity on 4/24/2010, 9:15 pm

Smirf wrote:Crys, I barely understood what you said.
Aman, I know you voted for me. And I'm just not very well liked. I bash on myself everyday because I hate how I look and how I act.

Well, you shouldn't do that. *shakes head* You're liked here, aren't you? Look at everyone who cares enough to post! (=

And it doesn't matter how you look- God looks inside to see how you act. And if you don't like how you act? Well... can't you change that if you want to? You should be happy with who you are. (=

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Post by B on 4/24/2010, 9:17 pm

no...i dont want you to vote for me because of my petty problems. im fine, i does not need any votes. Wink it just matters that im known for who i am. i dont think im awesome because ive....done things in my life. that i miss being able to keep. i gave up my freedom for gymnastics.
and i cant change. I know God knows how i act because he created me that way.
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Post by Jesus4Eternity on 4/24/2010, 9:20 pm

Well, if you don't want to do gymnastics anymore, why don't you just quit?

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Post by Arianna on 4/25/2010, 1:12 am

I'm going to say this -- no one hates you. If you go back and look at the negative repped posts, look if you said something rude or unfair. If you did, apologize in person to the people who may have been offended by it. If your post was perfectly fine, then you've obviously got an amazingly mean person on your hands. Razz
I'm also rather confused because your statistics say: Reputation : 3 / Positive votes received : 11 / Negative votes received : 5. 11 minus 5 isn't three, it's 6. I don't know what these negative votes are doing, but honestly I'd say that you have 6 rep points and not 3. Very Happy
Look at Ado - she has 15 negative rep. Not for any reason but that people didn't agree with her.
Rep should make people happy, not sad. This is the same kind of reason it was taken away for WI for about a year -- rep is meant to reward, not to hurt. Smile

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Post by B on 4/25/2010, 10:13 am

the problem is i dont remember who i offended at ALL. short term memory really does get to you at one point...ANYWAY. i know that there are people in this world that hate me. and i also know that everyone that has posted cares. im trying my best to look on the bright side and not let any of this stupid rep get to my head.
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Post by shadowsowner888 on 4/25/2010, 6:00 pm

Aw, Becca. *hug* It's gotta be hard to come and speak your mind, so I commend you on your bravery. ^^ I'm sorry you're feeling left out and hated, but at least speaking for myself, I sure don't hate you. :3 You're a cool person. The best thing you can do is remind yourself of how awesome you are, every single day, and if you see you've got negative rep just point and laugh and say, "Oh please." nod

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Post by B on 4/25/2010, 6:02 pm

Dat's what I ish doin now! :3
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Post by Snow on 4/25/2010, 8:43 pm

Aw, I'm so sorry to read this Smirf dear. D:
Don't worry, I understand about the rp thing. I, myself have given up rping completely due to how awful I seem to be. -_-
Hopefully we can both find peace.

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