Helppp... advice pleaseee... (mod closey?)
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Helppp... advice pleaseee... (mod closey?)
Should I delete my family on facebook and myspace?
I have 4 cousins between both of them, and here's each of their stories.
2 of them I don't mind at all.
The other 2, however....
One's a girl, she's like 17 or something, and in every status, there's "I love my baby _________!!" and it's pretty annoying to me. And also, whenever I put in my status "Well, life sucks." or anything indicating something's wrong, she always comments/messages me asking about it. I want her to back off and I'm tired of her.
Then there's my other guy cousin. He's a year younger than me and like.. obsessed with me. It's weird. Like, it's not yucky or anything, just annoying. I told him something personal about me (if you remember my blog from last week or week before) and he was like "Eeeew! Are you serious? That's as gross as you can get!" so I made it where I was "just kidding" even though I'm not. So yeah, I'm pretty mad at him. Anyways, he's always asking me to go to the lake with him and his family, which I don't want to, because I feel like with that side of the family I'm always under scrutiny. Then, he's like 'What are you doing?" I'm like... talking to friends.... and he's like "Oh, tell them to add me!" I'm like dude.. no. and he harped on about it for a whole dang hour. and now he's like 'Lauren lauren lauren... add my dad!" i'm like dude, no!
I guess the answer is obvious.... but.. opinions?
I have 4 cousins between both of them, and here's each of their stories.
2 of them I don't mind at all.
The other 2, however....
One's a girl, she's like 17 or something, and in every status, there's "I love my baby _________!!" and it's pretty annoying to me. And also, whenever I put in my status "Well, life sucks." or anything indicating something's wrong, she always comments/messages me asking about it. I want her to back off and I'm tired of her.
Then there's my other guy cousin. He's a year younger than me and like.. obsessed with me. It's weird. Like, it's not yucky or anything, just annoying. I told him something personal about me (if you remember my blog from last week or week before) and he was like "Eeeew! Are you serious? That's as gross as you can get!" so I made it where I was "just kidding" even though I'm not. So yeah, I'm pretty mad at him. Anyways, he's always asking me to go to the lake with him and his family, which I don't want to, because I feel like with that side of the family I'm always under scrutiny. Then, he's like 'What are you doing?" I'm like... talking to friends.... and he's like "Oh, tell them to add me!" I'm like dude.. no. and he harped on about it for a whole dang hour. and now he's like 'Lauren lauren lauren... add my dad!" i'm like dude, no!
I guess the answer is obvious.... but.. opinions?
Last edited by lauren on 7/2/2010, 12:40 pm; edited 1 time in total
Re: Helppp... advice pleaseee... (mod closey?)
Ah, cousins, one of the things I'm glad I don't have.
They're your family, so I wouldn't delete them. If your first cousin asks what's wrong, tell them you'd rather not talk about it period, and she can either understand and back off or just know she most likely isn't going to get a reply if she tries again. As for your second cousin, first off he needs to grow up (I'd try not to talk about that kind of stuff until he can prove he's mature enough), and second off... I want to say to white lie out of it, but that might not be one of the healthiest methods I've ever used 100% successfully. You could go along those lines if you want to though.
I don't know how much I helped, but hopefully I made some effect or something?
They're your family, so I wouldn't delete them. If your first cousin asks what's wrong, tell them you'd rather not talk about it period, and she can either understand and back off or just know she most likely isn't going to get a reply if she tries again. As for your second cousin, first off he needs to grow up (I'd try not to talk about that kind of stuff until he can prove he's mature enough), and second off... I want to say to white lie out of it, but that might not be one of the healthiest methods I've ever used 100% successfully. You could go along those lines if you want to though.
I don't know how much I helped, but hopefully I made some effect or something?
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Re: Helppp... advice pleaseee... (mod closey?)
Yeah, I think you're right in not deleting them. (: I'm a good liar. Which can either be a good or a bad thing, but I think I can make it work to be good xD
Thanks!
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Flagged so a mod will close this soon. Glad it's solved.
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