Boy Lovers Club

What happened, Lindsey? *concern*

I was by the beach and I saw this guy who looked exactly like Taylor Lautner in the NM trailer (when he was shirtless). xD

Well, my best friend that's a guy was really close to me before I went on vacation back in late June. We even talked over my vacation. But when I got back, he wouldn't talk to me at all. Saying he didn't need a friend like me. Him and I have been friends since fourth grade and I love him like a brother.
He won't answer my texts, calls, IMs, nothing. He just says he's mad at me.
I called him one day and he answered the phone with a rude "Don't call me" and hung up. I tried again and got the same thing but ruder.
I've been texting and texting a bunch of nice things to him like,
"We've been good friends for so long now and you just wanna throw it all away?"
"I really still wanna be your friend... You've already lost so many in the past school year"
(Which he has. Like, 3 out of the 5 he actually has.)
What can I do to get him to answer? Or should I just confront him once school starts?

Annndd, (lol, happy story now) I've been talking to one of my friend's cousins over the summer and I think I'm starting to like him a little. He only lives down the road from me and rides my bus and everything. And he's only one grade higher than me.
I was talking to him the other day about how I saw him and his friend walking shirtless down the road one day and how my Mom said he was cute. Wow, that freaked him out, haha. I replied with something I can't remember and he wrote back with:
""hahaha u know i never would think we would get along so well""

Not sure if I need any help on that one, I just felt like sharing...lol

PugsRock wrote:I was by the beach and I saw this guy who looked exactly like Taylor Lautner in the NM trailer (when he was shirtless). xD

Awesome.

My friend saw this guy that looked like Robert Pattinson once. xD He had two kids with him, though. And she knows this girl whose mom said she saw Zac Efron across the street, sitting on the sidewalk and eating a sandwich.

SomeoneSpeical08 wrote:Well, my best friend that's a guy was really close to me before I went on vacation back in late June. We even talked over my vacation. But when I got back, he wouldn't talk to me at all. Saying he didn't need a friend like me. Him and I have been friends since fourth grade and I love him like a brother.
He won't answer my texts, calls, IMs, nothing. He just says he's mad at me.
I called him one day and he answered the phone with a rude "Don't call me" and hung up. I tried again and got the same thing but ruder.
I've been texting and texting a bunch of nice things to him like,
"We've been good friends for so long now and you just wanna throw it all away?"
"I really still wanna be your friend... You've already lost so many in the past school year"
(Which he has. Like, 3 out of the 5 he actually has.)
What can I do to get him to answer? Or should I just confront him once school starts?

Annndd, (lol, happy story now) I've been talking to one of my friend's cousins over the summer and I think I'm starting to like him a little. He only lives down the road from me and rides my bus and everything. And he's only one grade higher than me.
I was talking to him the other day about how I saw him and his friend walking shirtless down the road one day and how my Mom said he was cute. Wow, that freaked him out, haha. I replied with something I can't remember and he wrote back with:
""hahaha u know i never would think we would get along so well""

Not sure if I need any help on that one, I just felt like sharing...lol

That's tough. I don't think there's much you can do to get him to answer you, but once school starts, you should definitely confront him about it. If he gives you a good answer, then just respect him and leave him alone. xP But I've read too many books, so I'm automatically starting to wonder whether he heard a fake rumor about you or something.

x3 That's awesome!

twilighter3000 wrote:Lucky you Pugs, I probably would have been like hyper ventilating trying to figure out if it was him! lol!

What??? That stinks SS08! Did you do anything that would make him mad? Or maybe he's just going through a stage where he thinks he's too cool to have friends, or something bad's happening at home... I can't believe he would do that! I'm not exactly sure what you should do, because I've never experienced that, but I'd try to confront him at school, but not when he's with a bunch of people, because then he'd feel pressure... Maybe people were teasing him about being friends with a girl---That's probably the most likely thing...


Ooh, make sure to tell us if you start liking him more, and what you guys talk about that could be potentially flirty! lol!

No, nothing. Unless he's mad because over vacation, I borrowed my nephew's cell phone and said it was mine. Maybe he texted me after I gave it back and my nephew said something rude. I'm pretty sure no one would be teasing him for being friends with a girl... Practically the only friends that he has are girls. And he always, always has a girlfriend.

shadowsowner888 wrote:

That's tough. I don't think there's much you can do to get him to answer you, but once school starts, you should definitely confront him about it. If he gives you a good answer, then just respect him and leave him alone. xP But I've read too many books, so I'm automatically starting to wonder whether he heard a fake rumor about you or something.

x3 That's awesome!

Maybe a fake rumor... That could be true. Though I'm not sure who would tell him. He usually doesn't hang out with many people over the summer.

It could be too that I don't like his girlfriend...

But does he know you don't like her? XP

Yeah, haha, I told him specifically that I hated her
Of course that was back in May I told him....haha

Hmm . . . um, that might have something to do with it, then. xD

Oh.... My... GOSH. Today was the start of co-op, and Nathan goes to the same co-op as I do, and we have biology together, but that's not the best part, we have lunch together, and I sat right. Across. From. Him. ^_^

Aww, congratz!!

I hate eating in front of guys, though. XP

It wasn't bad. We just ate... and didn't look at each other much... but when I looked at him I felt like I was going to be an idiot. XD It was a good lunch though. His friend was messing with him because he had pizza and Nathan didn't. XD In the end though, Nathan got a piece of the crust. XD

Haha, sounds like it was fun! XP

I t was nice. ^_^

I used to hate eating in front of people, but now I'm just like, "Oooh! Food!" xD Idk how, but somehow, I've managed to stop caring about it.

I don't care if I eat in front of my friends or something, but if there's a guy I like nearby, I just take like to microscopic bites and then I'm like, "Okay, I'm done." xD

Nice. xD

Lol, I just can't eat in front of guys I don't know. I'll eat like a freaking pig if it's just my guy friends. Because I eat with them all of the time, so it's like whatever.

Haha, but this one time, on a band trip, this guy I liked was sitting across from me.

Needless to say, I didn't eat one speck of lunch. And he was like 10 feet away from me.

x3 Haha, nice. I actually eat less around my guy friends. Just cus I don't wanna look like a pig, even though I absolutely can be if I want.

xD Wow.

Haha, yeah. I don't eat much at lunch anyway because I'm too busy talking, but yeah. I'm really comfortable with my guy friends (Not anymore, after what they said about me! Omg.) so whatever.


Haha, I know, right? XP

I saw this creepy picture on the iCarly club.

XD He looks possessed.

What'd they say?! 0.o

shadowsowner888 wrote: I saw this creepy picture on the iCarly club.

XD He looks possessed.

What'd they say?! 0.o

Omg! That's creepy.

Well, Pat texted me and was like, "You're s*xy," and all that stuff, right?
Then he was like, "Yeah, Matt and I were talking and I said you were hot. Then Matt was like, 'Yeah, she's dang s*xy.'"
I was like, "He's kidding, Pat. XP"
And then he started going on about how Matt used to like me.
But he apparently told Pat that a week ago.
...
So yeah. Now I'm just confused, because I'm not used to stuff like this.