The Crushers Club *Boys AND Girls!*

Well I'm 11.

I would guess that you're about 12 actually. I have a suggestion.
When you see him in the morning before school, break, or after school, just be like,"Hey, can I talk to you seriously for a second?" Make SURE you say 'Seriously' otherwise, he might think it's a joke. When he says yes, just say:
"Hey, you're one of my best friends, and I think it's only fair for you to know," then get a bit of a timid look on your face because it'll make it seem like you're really showing trust by telling him this,"I kinda like you." If he doesn't get it, say, "You know, like." Then give him a big grin, watch his face for a few seconds to see that soaking in, it's funny, and either turn and walk away, or if you intend to keep the conversation going, mysteriously "Forget" what you said, and go on as normal. Keep your eyes out for changes in the way he talks to you. I bet you anything he puts on a bit of a deeper voice and tries to act more mature. It's really hilarious. Good luck! And let me tell you, "Forgetting" that you told him that you like him, just reels him right in. Hope I helped and didn't just ramble on. xD

Thanks Lauren!

I wonder if I'd be urged to act more mature if someone liked me? Hmm.

xD It's just funny to watch. From what I know about you, Gri, you're already really mature. LOL! It's just because a lot of guys your age, and mine for that matter, can be utterly immature sometimes. It cracks me up, because since my friend Eileen blurted out to Laurence that I like him, he's been acting all mature around me. I love just watching him try.

Has anyone not known if they like someone or not?

Wow, I haven't been on in forever. Soo...if your a guy, I need to ask you something.

If a girl is crazy head-over-heels for you, but you don't like her like that, but you're too nice to hurt her feelings, also because she's one of your best friends, would you still tell your friends if you guys, like, started dating?

To date someone I didn't like would be to live a lie.

Mmm, I see.

The first one is always the hardest, I think. Like someone just hands you their heart and you've no idea what to do with it.

Ok, I'm getting confused.

Sorry. I'm a very confusing person. Anyways, how's everyone's love life?

I'm not sure exactly.

Aw, what's the situation?

I'm not sure if I like Derek or if I'm just doing what my friend told me not to do (like him cuz he said he likes me), I don't know if Derek still likes me or if he does/will like Tori, and I just spent like 2 hours looking at pictures on facebook to find pics of a guy I like (said guy doesn't even know who I am).

Sounds complicated o_o

I'm sure you can figure it out though. (:

littletoes101 wrote:Hm...I fake my age on teh interwebs...if i said I was 11 in RL would you belive me?

Yah, I would. xD Cus I trust people, probably too easily, but as a result I'll most likely believe pretty much anything anyone says.

Tolly12bells wrote:I would guess that you're about 12 actually. I have a suggestion.
When you see him in the morning before school, break, or after school, just be like,"Hey, can I talk to you seriously for a second?" Make SURE you say 'Seriously' otherwise, he might think it's a joke. When he says yes, just say:
"Hey, you're one of my best friends, and I think it's only fair for you to know," then get a bit of a timid look on your face because it'll make it seem like you're really showing trust by telling him this,"I kinda like you." If he doesn't get it, say, "You know, like." Then give him a big grin, watch his face for a few seconds to see that soaking in, it's funny, and either turn and walk away, or if you intend to keep the conversation going, mysteriously "Forget" what you said, and go on as normal. Keep your eyes out for changes in the way he talks to you. I bet you anything he puts on a bit of a deeper voice and tries to act more mature. It's really hilarious. Good luck! And let me tell you, "Forgetting" that you told him that you like him, just reels him right in. Hope I helped and didn't just ramble on. xD

OMG. xD That is EPIC, and I need to try it out if I ever end up telling Ron that I like him. That whole deep voice and mature thing is insane.

SaddleClub wrote:Has anyone not known if they like someone or not?

Yep.

tigerlyly411 wrote:Mmm, I see.

The first one is always the hardest, I think. Like someone just hands you their heart and you've no idea what to do with it.

Suddenly I feel bad for Jamie. o.0 I really need to tell him I don't like him anymore.

tigerlyly411 wrote:Sorry. I'm a very confusing person. Anyways, how's everyone's love life?

Delightful. How about yours?

tigerlyly411 wrote:Sounds complicated o_o

I'm sure you can figure it out though. (:

I hope I can. Derek is very confusing sometimes.

shadowsowner888 wrote:Suddenly I feel bad for Jamie. o.0 I really need to tell him I don't like him anymore.

Delightful. How about yours?

The first heartbreak is the hardest too > <.

It's....meh. Ryan and I are taking a break because the distance is hard to keep up with. We never see each other, and he's always busy and he's been really sick lately. I don't know if I'll get over him and start liking and (possibly) going out with other guys or waiting until high school and get back together with him, like we said we would.

SaddleClub wrote:I hope I can. Derek is very confusing sometimes.

Boys, in general, are confusing (no offense, guys).

Derek's confused me like crazy sometimes. For the longest time, I thought he liked Tori and then all of a sudden, "I like you." I flipped out for days after that. And then like, 2 days later, he asks me out. And then my friend said he asked her out, but that was a misunderstanding. And then I thought he asked someone else out, but he said he just asked that girl out cuz he wanted to see what she'd say. He said, "I've only asked 2 girls out. Rebecca had no reason. I'm not interested in her. The other had reason." Was the other me? Who knows. And then he said he's liked me either since we've been friends or the summer. But he liked Tori around when we first became friends (he told me he did like a monthish later) and there is a difference between April and June/July. UGH.

shadowsowner888 wrote:OMG. xD That is EPIC, and I need to try it out if I ever end up telling Ron that I like him. That whole deep voice and mature thing is insane.

Wait, who's Ron? What happened to Jamie? I'm so lost.

SaddleClub wrote:Derek's confused me like crazy sometimes. For the longest time, I thought he liked Tori and then all of a sudden, "I like you." I flipped out for days after that. And then like, 2 days later, he asks me out. And then my friend said he asked her out, but that was a misunderstanding. And then I thought he asked someone else out, but he said he just asked that girl out cuz he wanted to see what she'd say. He said, "I've only asked 2 girls out. Rebecca had no reason. I'm not interested in her. The other had reason." Was the other me? Who knows. And then he said he's liked me either since we've been friends or the summer. But he liked Tori around when we first became friends (he told me he did like a monthish later) and there is a difference between April and June/July. UGH.

Maybe wait and see what he does next? Then you could determine from that if he likes you or not, I suppose.

If one were to keep bugging their guy friend about the girl they liked, what questions would one ask?

Except...I think this guy friend of mine likes me e_e;;

You and I are in the same position my friend. Hmm... From a girl's Point of View, One should ask:

"Who do you like?" Just casually. He'll probably say,"I'm not saying." or something like that. If he actually says something other than that, congratulations. xD

Ask for a hint, which he won't give to you likely. xD I'm being very helpful. Naming all the things he won't answer.

Sometimes just the stupid question like,"If I asked you out, would you say yes?" can help. Look for him going red, or wringing his hands, fiddling with a belt loop or hair. Even if he says no, those signs basically mean,"Heck, yeah."

Truth or Dare works amazingly well. Just keep on him.

Let him get a false sense of security. Leave him alone for a few days, and then jump right back at him when he's least expecting it. He'll be more likely to blurt it out.

Listen to what he says to you. Closely. If he every mutters something quietly under his breath, ask him to repeat it in a louder voice. This works particularly well if you two are alone.

Set the scene. If you want him to tell you that he likes you or something, get it in a more romantic time. Instead of Gym Class, chose the morning when there's still dewdrops on the grass.

School Dances. Enough said. You all go insane, and often don't judge what you say with as much accuracy as you would normally. Talk to him then. Then the scene's already set. Slow-Dances work well here. Just ask him to dance as friends, and talk softly, peering into his eyes. The eye contact really helps.

(Yes, I realize hardly any of these are questions, but just work with it. It helps. I swear.)

If the big statement of "I like you" comes, be like,"Really? OK," flash him a smile and just let it fade away. Watch his reaction. It should be really sweet.

If worst comes to worst, you can always try talking to his friends. They probably won't tell you straight off the bat, but you'll catch signs such as eyebrow-raising, or them elbowing each other in the ribs. That basically means,"Ooh, ______'s crush knows he likes her."

Good luck!

Oh, but you see. I don't like him like that. But, WOW! You're really experienced with guys and stuff! That's awesome (:

Tolly12bells wrote: chose the morning when there's still dewdrops on the grass.

Like YOU should have!!