The Crushers Club *Boys AND Girls!*

tigerlyly411 wrote:Oh, but you see. I don't like him like that. But, WOW! You're really experienced with guys and stuff! That's awesome (:

tigerlyly411 wrote:Wow, I haven't been on in forever. Soo...if your a guy, I need to ask you something.

If a girl is crazy head-over-heels for you, but you don't like her like that, but you're too nice to hurt her feelings, also because she's one of your best friends, would you still tell your friends if you guys, like, started dating?

SaddleClub wrote:Something happened when he was riding his bike and he said this:

"Well my bone is bruised and I can't stand or walk. My upper thigh is swollen. No broken bone or fracture."

SaddleClub wrote:

shadowsowner888 wrote:OMG. xD That is EPIC, and I need to try it out if I ever end up telling Ron that I like him. That whole deep voice and mature thing is insane.

Wait, who's Ron? What happened to Jamie? I'm so lost.

Tolly12bells wrote:You and I are in the same position my friend. Hmm... From a girl's Point of View, One should ask:

"Who do you like?" Just casually. He'll probably say,"I'm not saying." or something like that. If he actually says something other than that, congratulations. xD

Ask for a hint, which he won't give to you likely. xD I'm being very helpful. Naming all the things he won't answer.

Sometimes just the stupid question like,"If I asked you out, would you say yes?" can help. Look for him going red, or wringing his hands, fiddling with a belt loop or hair. Even if he says no, those signs basically mean,"Heck, yeah."

Truth or Dare works amazingly well. Just keep on him.

Let him get a false sense of security. Leave him alone for a few days, and then jump right back at him when he's least expecting it. He'll be more likely to blurt it out.

Listen to what he says to you. Closely. If he every mutters something quietly under his breath, ask him to repeat it in a louder voice. This works particularly well if you two are alone.

Set the scene. If you want him to tell you that he likes you or something, get it in a more romantic time. Instead of Gym Class, chose the morning when there's still dewdrops on the grass.

School Dances. Enough said. You all go insane, and often don't judge what you say with as much accuracy as you would normally. Talk to him then. Then the scene's already set. Slow-Dances work well here. Just ask him to dance as friends, and talk softly, peering into his eyes. The eye contact really helps.

(Yes, I realize hardly any of these are questions, but just work with it. It helps. I swear.)

If the big statement of "I like you" comes, be like,"Really? OK," flash him a smile and just let it fade away. Watch his reaction. It should be really sweet.

If worst comes to worst, you can always try talking to his friends. They probably won't tell you straight off the bat, but you'll catch signs such as eyebrow-raising, or them elbowing each other in the ribs. That basically means,"Ooh, ______'s crush knows he likes her."

Good luck!

SaddleClub wrote:Something happened when he was riding his bike and he said this:

"Well my bone is bruised and I can't stand or walk. My upper thigh is swollen. No broken bone or fracture."

Noah wrote:

tigerlyly411 wrote:Wow, I haven't been on in forever. Soo...if your a guy, I need to ask you something.

If a girl is crazy head-over-heels for you, but you don't like her like that, but you're too nice to hurt her feelings, also because she's one of your best friends, would you still tell your friends if you guys, like, started dating?

I've actually had that happened. A girl I'm really good friends with asked me out, but I don't like her like that like, at all, so I told her "How bout we just stay friends and see how it goes from there?"
But I don't think a relationship is good if you can't tell anyone. Its like basically being ashamed that you go out with that person.


OH! I talked to Emma alot today!
Cause I was sitting by myself, and she asked me if I wanted to come sit with her and a couple other girls
But I'm starting to think. Maybe Emma isn't a crush. Maybe I just THOUGHT she was.
My mind is so confusing xP

Jesus4Eternity wrote:Oh my gosh. At play practive today, in the morning, Kevin and I were goofing off, and it was awesome. xD This afternoon, he started singing, "Baby, I Love You." right at me. xD, so awesome!

SaddleClub wrote:

shadowsowner888 wrote:OMG. xD That is EPIC, and I need to try it out if I ever end up telling Ron that I like him. That whole deep voice and mature thing is insane.

Tolly12bells wrote:You and I are in the same position my friend. Hmm... From a girl's Point of View, One should ask:

"Who do you like?" Just casually. He'll probably say,"I'm not saying." or something like that. If he actually says something other than that, congratulations. xD

Ask for a hint, which he won't give to you likely. xD I'm being very helpful. Naming all the things he won't answer.

Sometimes just the stupid question like,"If I asked you out, would you say yes?" can help. Look for him going red, or wringing his hands, fiddling with a belt loop or hair. Even if he says no, those signs basically mean,"Heck, yeah."

Truth or Dare works amazingly well. Just keep on him.

Let him get a false sense of security. Leave him alone for a few days, and then jump right back at him when he's least expecting it. He'll be more likely to blurt it out.

Listen to what he says to you. Closely. If he every mutters something quietly under his breath, ask him to repeat it in a louder voice. This works particularly well if you two are alone.

Set the scene. If you want him to tell you that he likes you or something, get it in a more romantic time. Instead of Gym Class, chose the morning when there's still dewdrops on the grass.

School Dances. Enough said. You all go insane, and often don't judge what you say with as much accuracy as you would normally. Talk to him then. Then the scene's already set. Slow-Dances work well here. Just ask him to dance as friends, and talk softly, peering into his eyes. The eye contact really helps.

(Yes, I realize hardly any of these are questions, but just work with it. It helps. I swear.)

If the big statement of "I like you" comes, be like,"Really? OK," flash him a smile and just let it fade away. Watch his reaction. It should be really sweet.

If worst comes to worst, you can always try talking to his friends. They probably won't tell you straight off the bat, but you'll catch signs such as eyebrow-raising, or them elbowing each other in the ribs. That basically means,"Ooh, ______'s crush knows he likes her."

Good luck!

Man. You are epically good at guy stuff. xD

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